[slaggard]

love is meant to be a generous feeling. give it out. u see love can be an ingredient for a relationship---relationships can survive without love. the reason why we choose to be with someone is squarely because of our self interests. maybe the financial, security, joy or even the emotional support they offer. unfortunately relationships founded on other interests are given a bad rap by our society while we support this 'emotional dependance and obsession'(love).
if you can love more that one woman ---great. there is a reason why u fall in love with a particular person mainly because they contribute positively to a particular aspect of your life. its your job to prevent conflict, and keep things in focus. you wife will remain your wife and so should her interests be most dear. however any other soul u share a special relationships should not jeorpadize what u already got, but compliment it.
[ Slaggard- "the reckless diamond" ]