[mombasaguy]

thanks for your honest input. i agree with you on all that you have said and feel that it is a serious issue. however, most of the results from the survey said that the black women were not interested in mixed dating and were very against even black men interacially dating. this is what confuses me. although i believe that lack of opportunities to interact with outside races in general, probably creates a woman who is afraid to think outside of her box. exposure is everything. i mean people back home still, have troubles with marrying certain tribes due to stereotypes and lack of true exposure. how much more different races and ethnicities i guess.

lakini thanks for your input.


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>">Why has it been taboo for white men and black women, yet
>>not the other way around??"
>Who says its taboo?
>
>">why are more black women not dating
>>white men and why is it that in kenya, african girls love
>>white guys..." (You mean Kuro's in MSA? Of course, they are
>their one way ticket to riches...or so they think)"...but when
>they come these sides they only want black>men??...." Says
>who? Who came up with this observation?
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>Mombasaguy, if this study was done in N. America, obviously
>when they say "black" they generally mean the "African
>Americans" in the US. Its a known fact that Akatas' and
>African's, except for the color of their skins, have totally
>different mentalities and outlooks and lumping them all as
>"blacks" creates room for erroneous observations.
>
>Anyway, here is my take on this. I will use "blacks" here in
>reference to the African American. The Black woman has been
>labelled many undesirable things some which are true some
>which are not. Your typical black woman will have several
>kids with different baby daddy's by they time she is 25. Due
>to their upbringing, especially in fatherless homes, they have
>a messed-up attitude towards men in general. These women
>hardly get a college education (although compared to their
>male counterparts they are much better off). Their growing up
>makes them very opinionated, loud, aggressive, uncultured and
>drama-queens.
>
>Now, the white males are the top of the cream in corporate
>America. Minority includes everyone else (Blacks, Hispanic,
>Orientals, Disabled, Women) but them. We can say they are
>considered the most desirable of the stock. Basically, they
>are in the highest demand, and they know it. So logically
>thinking, why would they want to go out for a ‘black’ woman
>who has 4 kids with different baby daddy’s, only has a GED
>education, does not have a nice job, isn’t cultured, has a
>negative attitude towards men etc etc. Why go through all
>the drama? Why not go for an oriental girl, who is cultured,
>hard working, calm, educated etc etc.?
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